Full Disclosure

So I've actually gotten a few messages from my last post, which is nice! In the interests of full disclosure however, I feel like I should paint a more complete picture of myself and what I'm looking for. Everyone who comes here just looking for porn . . . ignore this post! We'll get back to you momentarily.

About me: 28 year old nerd who loves anime, video games, sci-fi and fantasy, manga, and comic books. You probably knew that stuff already though, right?

Some stuff you may not know is, I'm currently living in New York in a house with my two brothers (who get along with each other) and my two cats (who do NOT get along with each other). I am the least judgmental person who I, personally, know. I have flat feet. I don't currently have a car, but my full-time retail slave job is within walking distance so it's not a big deal to me. I am also hopeless romantic.

This is what I looked like a year ago:

. . . N--not bad?

What you CAN'T SEE in these pictures: my bad posture, my ridiculously skinny arms, my growing bald spot :0

And this is what I look like more recently:

Do not worry! I am not too attached to the ugly beard. The hat, however, stays.

Most days I'm kinda afraid to leave the house because then the public can SEE me.

Sex stuff! This is where most will lose interest, I'm afraid. You see, despite running a gay porn blog for umpteen years, I'm pretty much asexual when it comes to my own body. Gay sex just sorta . . . bores me most of the time, unless there's something else I can focus on during it. This doesn't mean that I don't crave affection though. Hugging, kissing, cuddling . . . emotional stuff . . . that's pretty much the stuff I'm after here. I'm just not really into the 'normal' sexual aspects of a relationship.

Not that I don't have a sex-drive. Far from it. What I AM into is pretty much the kinkier stuff. Spanking is my biggest fetish. 99% of the time when I jerk off, it's to fantasies of a powerful bara man getting turned over a knee, his pants roughly shoved down, and his bare butt getting slapped and spanked until he's howling for it to stop. That is what my penis likes! Related kinks are stuff like power play, humiliation, and bondage. Any prospective dudes should like that stuff too . . . if only to understand what I'm into. And of course it'd be nice to both be turned on by the same stuff. ^^

So yeah.

What I'm looking for: Someone affectionate and caring, firstly. A spanko. The geekier, the better. A gaymer. I love to show new shows and games to people, and if they can appreciate them (and even show me stuff as well) then that'd be swell! Someone open-minded. Someone out of the closet. Someone who tips their waiters. Someone who doesn't mind putting up with my insecurities (and I have a lot) and who is, above all, sincere and genuine.

In short, a nice gay furry, spanko, geek!

Yeah, there's lots of those just roaming around. -_-

What I'm NOT looking for: Casual hookups (I've got internet RPs for those :P). A Republican (:X). A body-builder (not that that would be BAD, just that I'm not really interested in outward appearance. Just because I like bara doesn't mean my SO has to be bara). Someone who lives really far away (sorry guys! Both my previous relationships have been long-distance, and both refused opportunities to meet up when we could so I'm a bit leery of them now).

And . . . that's that I guess.